the not so secret diaries of a modern feminist

This blog is queer, body, feminist, and kitty positive. And is most definitely nsfw.

straightened asked: i wasn't trying to start an argument. feminism goes towards both women and men because WE are trying to gain the same equal rights as men.

misandry-mermaid:

I’m not.

I don’t want the right to rape and abuse others with near impunity the way cis men do.

I don’t want to have privileges that oppress and harm others.  Those are rights that cis men have.  I’m not fighting to have those.  I’m fighting to END them for everyone.

lets-go-lesbos:

Pubes aren’t gross. Armpit hair isn’t gross. Leg hair isn’t gross. Fat isn’t gross. Bones that stick out aren’t gross.

Body policing is gross.

(via little-feminist-princess)

White slaves masters raped black women and turned their backs on their offspring. They are the original dead beat dads.

(via ablackgirlintheworld)

can you say Thomas Jefferson and everyone of his co signers of the declaration of so called independence. yeah independence for who ?

(via ausetkmt)

Not so fun fact: those signers were so hounded by the fact that they kept slaves that many of them bent over backwards to justify keeping slaves, including pointing out cranial structures and cultural differences. They were claiming black people to be subhuman so that they could claim they wanted freedom while still keeping slaves.

(via crowvo)

Fetishizers and racists love to argue that if you find someone sexually attractive, aesthetically pleasing, or have lust for them; you “are not racist”.

Quite the contrary, lusting someone because of a fetish means that you do not see them as human; merely a play you for your sexual fantasies. It is dehumanizing. The object of lust can easily be replaced by anyone who looks similar and their happiness is not needed as long as yours it guaranteed.

Usually when people ask how a racist can have sex with someone of another race I use this very example of the slave/master complex.

-Susie the moderator

(via fucknofetishization)

(via higgies)

total-queer-move:

LOOK. IT’S EVERY SINGLE STEREOTYPE ABOUT MEN’S RIGHTS ACTIVISTS PUT INTO ONE HANDY-DANDY DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEY SO IT CAN BE STATISTICALLY VALIDATED!! [x]

THANKS R/MENSRIGHTS!!

(via higgies)

punkrockluna:

instead of “I love you no matter what sexuality/race/gender you are!”

try “I love you and will celebrate your identity with you!”

(via higgies)